why we determined to homeschool

sharing extra about how lengthy we intend to homeschool, and why the heck we’re doing it with just a bit over a month left of the college yr. 

Hello pals!

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For as we speak’s submit, I wished to share slightly bit extra about our homeschool journey and what’s happening. I’ve alluded to the truth that we’ve had a tough time the previous few months and it’s been troublesome to navigate how and what to share. I’ve at all times been open with you guys in the case of my life, however the aim of the weblog has at all times been to share MY expertise; not my youngsters’s. It’s a tough line to stroll, particularly once they’re an enormous a part of my life and I really feel like so lots of you’re part of our household. On the similar, I by no means need them to really feel like their privateness has been invaded by what I share right here, so I’ve at all times tried to take a fragile method to my content material, particularly as they’ve gotten older.

The nutshell model is that this: we ended up transferring Liv to a different non-public college in January. We have been all battling the mind-boggling quantity of homework, checks, and assignments. It was particularly onerous along with her competitors dance schedule. We switched studios and lower her hours in half, and he or she was nonetheless up till at the very least midnight each evening (for the previous 2+ years) making an attempt to complete all the pieces for college. I’m an enormous believer in onerous work and I believe tutorial rigor has its place, but it surely was an excessive amount of for everybody. So, she switched and has been thriving.

When she switched faculties, it was the primary time P hasn’t had her huge sis at college, which was difficult for her. The Pilot additionally retired, which was an enormous transition, and he or she began to have extra frequent stomachaches. (Her abdomen has bothered her on and off for years, which has at all times anxious me since she had severe reflux as a baby and was on Prilosec and Zantac, which has been recalled for terrifying causes.) She noticed a number of docs, had an ultrasound, her abdomen was deemed “wholesome,” and their solely suggestion was to place her on a PPI once more. She was additionally doing CBT weekly, and generally twice every week. Her abdomen ache and nervousness obtained so unhealthy that she missed many days of faculty, and we have been right here making an attempt to maintain up with the insane quantity of homework, classwork, and checks.

The Pilot was residence for retirement and was educating her the content material, ensuring she accomplished the massive packets of classwork, and taking her to highschool for checks. He had return to industrial airline coaching and I couldn’t fathom solo parenting, working, and making an attempt to maintain up with all the college work she was lacking, so I requested her to both select to return to highschool or we may pull her out, and he or she stated, “Please homeschool me.”

I by no means supposed to be a instructor, however I’ll do something for our infants and if it’s what P wants proper now, I’m going to do it.

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Additionally value mentioning right here that I made a decision to do a Food Sentivity Test (and another purposeful labs) and obtained to the basis reason behind some intestine points, and her gluten sensitivity was extreme. No marvel her abdomen was hurting :/ Since she began the protocols and eliminated gluten, her abdomen ache has significantly decreased.

Our plan now:

– She’s on the waitlist for Liv’s new college however realistically received’t have the ability to get in till fifth grade

– We’ll homeschool till then and if she decides to return, that’s nice, and if she doesn’t wish to, that’s okay, too.

The humorous factor is that I was actually cautious of homeschooling. Pre-kids thought to myself, “How on earth can a guardian anticipate to show their youngsters extra successfully than a instructor?”

Through the ladies’ time at school, we’ve had some extraordinary lecturers who’re all the pieces lecturers ought to be. They love youngsters, love what they’re educating, they’re above and past. However on the similar time, some lecturers are…not good. They are saying weird issues at school, disgrace youngsters in entrance of their friends, and this occurs in a non-public college setting ALL the time, when you find yourself paying in your child to be taught by instructors who don’t appear to love youngsters in any respect. A overwhelming majority of the time, we spent the three to 4 hour block every evening educating anyway, as a result of they weren’t taught the content material throughout their lessons.

Rising up, I additionally thought that homeschooled youngsters have been most likely awkward as a result of they don’t have as a lot social interplay. The truth is that all the homeschooled youngsters I’ve met are form, articulate, pleasant, and extremely good.

Regardless that I’ve seen pals homeschool and form of daydreamed about how how enjoyable it will be, I didn’t take into account it a chance as a result of I work at home, juggling shopper calls, content material creation, podcast interviews, Zooms, IHP work, and many others. I didn’t really feel like I may add one other issues to my plate, however I didn’t even suppose twice about it after we obtained thus far. I’ve shuffled my schedule round lots so that almost all of my content material creation is finished over the weekend, and the sweetness about homeschool is that it solely takes round two hours every day at this age.

This submit is already tremendous lengthy, so I’ll share one other submit quickly with the curriculum we’re utilizing and the way we construction our days.

Thanks in your kindness and being so wonderful over the previous few months. It’s been a tough yr in some ways (this is only one of them) and being right here with you all every day is a serious vivid spot. We completed our first full week of homeschool and I’m feeling fairly excited and hopeful about it! I’m additionally grateful that we get to spend some additional time collectively and are wanting into all the cool homeschool actions that Tucson affords!

xoxo

Gina